
Along a gravel road just outside of Vesta in southwestern Minnesota, the city cemetery lies to the left with the town’s grain elevator complex in the distance, just over the hill.
As a young girl, I remember fearing cemeteries, that place where my paternal grandpa was laid to rest atop a rare prairie hill when I was just nine.
But my view of cemeteries has evolved over the years so that today I see these earthly resting spots as places of faith, art, history and personal stories.
I no longer focus on the bones buried beneath my feet or the newly-departed lying under a heaped mound of dirt. Rather, I find myself reading tombstones, marveling at carved stone, wondering about the lives of those who lie within the often fenced boundaries of graveyards.

The hilltop Valley Grove Church Cemetery near Nerstrand Big Woods State Park is especially picturesque during the fall.
In particular, I am drawn to country cemeteries that my husband and I happen upon during leisurely Sunday afternoon drives in rural Minnesota.

Trebon Cemetery sits next to the historic Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church west of Faribault in Shieldsville Township.
Spot a spire spearing the sky and we typically find a cemetery tucked behind or aside the church. Convenient and comforting.
During this Holy Week, when Christians worldwide focus on reflection and repentance and the suffering and crucifixion of Christ, it seems fitting to revisit some of the Minnesota cemeteries I’ve explored.

Roses left at the base of the Milford Monument west of New Ulm on Memorial Day weekend in 2007. The monument honors Milford settlers who died in the U.S.-Dakota War of 1862.
There is much to learn here about those who went before us—those we loved and those we never knew.

You’ll find art of all sorts on tombstones, like this one in a cemetery on the west side of New Ulm.

Stone against stone at Hauge Lutheran Church (the Old Stone Church) in the Monkey Valley near Kenyon.
Copyright 2014 Audrey Kletscher Helbling
I grew up about 10 miles from Valley Grove, and it was a popular destination for a summer bike ride through the country. It’s a beautiful place, and I was pleased to see it among your photos.
Me too. I was married at Valley Grove. That burr oak is stately, and we did photos in front of it.
Matt, what a lovely place to be married. Lots of weddings are scheduled in upcoming months to the end of September at Valley Grove, according to the VG website.
I think that burr oak is one of the reasons I especially like this cemetery. That and the hilltop location from which to view the beautiful surrounding countryside. As I recall, the last time I visited the cemetery, chains were holding some of the branches in place on that oak.
Sean, Valley Grove is such a beautiful spot, especially in the fall. Have you ever attended the Country Social there in September?
What a beautiful post. These kinds of places are really special and unique.
Thank you, Samuel.